Damn some entitled desi women out there. No matter what happens, moms should always come first, Prophet Muhammad S.A.W said three times that the right on a man is his mother's first. And he condemned a man who used to listen to his wife over his mother. A mother's sacrifice is far more than a wife's would ever be the majority of the time. I don't understand why desi wives has to create unnecessary drama out of thin air. These older women are cranky sometimes, what's wrong with listening to them sometimes, or seeing their needs. I had enough of these comments where people are bashing desi households left right and center. If you guys are so unhappy and unfulfilled, there is an option of divorce or an option of marrying outside of culture. Or at least learn a bit of tolerance. Wallah people these days are just too entitled and arrogant to think about anyone else but themselves.