I found dick pics on my wifes phone and was upset about it and obsessed and she explained it away and nothing happened. I really cant figure out 2 people at a gym get to trading nudes and nothing happened. But was super turned on and very hard to argue and be too hurt and I eventually stopped arguing and accepted her explanation. She knowing me probably was confused why I accepted what I think she must have known she was in bad situation and probably gave her an idea. Well, 2 months later she asks me for an open marriage after some prior discussion not admitting anything but she told me I couldnt satisfy her in bed. OOf, gut punch! I was real turned on and tried to hide my excitement when she awkwardly was trying to ask for us to open marriage and nicely telling me the issues in our sexlife. but later it turns out to be the hottest thing she ever told me. Still struggling with it as a reality so its weird. But I agreed and later I found out she had already slept with another guy she met and I guess wanted him more and was too hard to hide it from me.