Nashville Swinger Clubs?

Thanks for doing the tour on youtube, that was really helpful. My wife and I are thinking about giving the club a shot, but we're not totally sure what to expect. She digs the idea but is especially nervous because we're totally unfamiliar with the social norms.

We're curious-

  1. how many people at the club are from out of town vs regulars (just trying to figure out how many people will already know each other)?
  2. We were both raised in ultra conservative households, so this is new to us. We'd definitely fall into the voyeur category (happy to talk with people but we'd keep our hands to ourselves) - from what I hear this would be totally fine - am I wrong about that?
  3. How do you watch people without coming across as a creeper? Or is it just expected (that's why people are there) so we don't worry about it? We don't want to ruin the vibe for other people.

Thanks in advance!

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