If you can, look through the bile in these posts for some grains of truth. A lot of people here are currently being denied sex by their partners and feel that they could never do such a thing to the one they love, but who knows what the future holds.

Now that your positions are reversed you have the perspective of both sides. I would gently advise you to stop suggesting that your partner get his testosterone tested. Your partner is not a broken car to be sent to the mechanics for repair. You may be hurting him unknowingly, the implication being that he is not manly enough for you. Secondly, you're foisting the responsibility back on him to relight the fire.

Do you feel comfortable being the one to initiate sexual encounters and/or bring the new activities into the bedroom? You might find that your partner responds well if you start trying to get him turned on. The number one complaint that men have about their partners is that they wish she would initiate more often. Start by trying to fulfill some of his fantasies, and that might draw him towards wanting to fulfill yours. Seriously, if my wife rolled over one night and whispered into my ear that she was aching for my cock and desperately needed to be fucked, I would be so fucking turned on. The key here is that you need to start doing some work if you want results. Don't be ashamed or shy. I can easily think of soooooo many things that you could do, but if you have not yet tried to take responsibility here then that's the first thing that needs to happen.