[A/Ne] Tips on escalating with my aunt?

They've tried counselling and everything but they still argue everyday over petty shit. I hate seeing her being treated like trash when she honestly deserves much better. The only reason they're even staying together is bc of my cousins and the fact that she doesn't have a degree and only does babysitting everyday. My mom's side of the family includes the uncle who's married to this aunt and all of them just keep trash talking her behind their backs while her parents are trying to defend her. My mom's side of the family has a good history of abusing children and other family members. They gossip way too much. I digress

My point being, they argue everyday and she gets abused daily even after going for counselling and she's the one who gets gossiped about bc she can't stand up for herself. I feel bad for her and like I said, she deserves better

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