I nearly cheated on my wife and I feel like dog shit.

Well, then I’ll share my own. I’ll make it as short as possible. About 7 yrs ago, i started to think about the possibility of exploring with others. Like you, my husband is my best friend & our sex life was great, but it didn’t stop the scenarios in my head. It’s not something I wanted to ever do alone either. After months & months, I finally opened up to him. It was great to go back & forth sharing our fantasies & “what if’s”. We did our research & eventually ended up playing with others as a couple. I don’t regret it for a second because there was nothing to hide from anyone, we weren’t “cheating” on each other, we were safe about everything we did & we did it together. After that, sharing thoughts about anything was so natural for us. Still is!

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