Need advice from a Dutch perspective

We only had one car, we had to make it so that my husband could drop/pick me off every day while they went to have fun. It is a very long commute and I never asked for gas money.

I also didn't even want to go to Hill country, in fact I had plan to work that Saturday too so I had to rearrange that too.

I went out of my way to cook for them. (One sister only cooked once). And I also paid for the restaurants a bunch of times.

My husband skipped work for two weeks (these weren't even vacation days so they were not paid).

Point is, we did a lot for them. Stuff that we didn't need to do.

So now I expect some reciprocity since I'm going there now. And now I'm entitled?

/r/Netherlands Thread Parent