I need a fucking break from my life

I just did this this morning and put his laundry in a giant pile on the kitchen floor after I had waited for over a week for him to put it away. He did his typical 'look sad and guilty' thing after promising about 10 times that he would make more effort around the house.

Putting away the laundry is his one fucking job, which I have continuously lowered my standards towards. When we first got married, we took care of the dog 50/50, he did the dishes, and I did everything else. He kept neglecting the dog, so I took over those duties, then he started waiting for days at a time to do the dishes until I literally had no dishes left and the sink was growing mold, so I took that over too because I was at my wit's end.

I even bought storage containers so that the laundry goes into drawers less than one foot away from the dryer, and he will go for over a week until I bitch at him to put it the fuck away. I'll put mine and my daughter's away now because I refuse to live like a teenaged boy as a 35-year-old woman.

Then this motherfucker says to me when I tell him I am going off the deep end, "just ask me when you need help."

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