I guess my issue isn’t so much about custody. I don’t know how it works in other states, but we have two different types. Legal and physical custody. My ex wife has full physical custody, but we have joint legal custody. I have nothing to lose as far as that goes, I wish I had fought it more now. My biggest issue, is that I still have the right as a parent to decide what my daughter does or doesn’t do. When she turns 18, I’ll support her decisions 100%. But right now she’s 11 and I have a responsibility to decide what’s right for her. And I think my rights as a parent are being violated, and I’m curious if someone is breaking the law in the process.