Need recommendations. My wife who is everything to me recently left me. I am absolutely broken and feel like I will never be happy again. Please give me 2 hours to feel like maybe things might turn out okay

Been on Tinder, and only been swiped by the most horribly unattractive and obese women. It had the exact opposite effect of making me feel any better.

When I say I won't do better, I say it objectively and just being realistic. When we met we were young, she was fairly cute and trying to get her shit together. She had a skinny physique but a little chub to lose at the same time. Years later, she definitely got her shit together, she's driven AF, very successful, has an absolute heart of gold and everyone she meets loves her, She is legit hotter at 36 than she was at 23. Her looks are a solid 9 even when she doesn't get "date night ready", she takes great care of her body and it shows. She has guys checking her out ALL the time. Compared to other women in my area at our age when looks are more often than not starting to fade or just fall into neglect, she is easily in the top 2% of most attractive mid-30s moms. After my work buddies saw her the first time they used to even joke that I must have a huge dick, they would playfully tease me with "Dude how the FUCK did you get her?!"

Not only that, we have practically everything in common and I've never clicked with anyone the way we do.

I'm just saying. I don't mean to put myself down, I'm a reasonably handsome and okayishly fit dude who somewhat has my shit together. I've got a pretty solid personality except for the fact I'm neither charming, charismatic, or able to make people laugh. I'm the guy on paper that women say they want, but when the rubber meets the road they don't feel anything for.

I appreciate your "get your head out of your ass" attitude, but the economics of it are simple. Women on her level have all the options. They're just not taking a second look at dudes like me.

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