I need relationship advice pls & thxs

Seems he's bored of the relationship then. Also, "where would you go" is an extremely shitty and abusive thing to say to someone you are supposed to care about.

The statement implies that you are so undesirable that nobody but him would put up with you, therefore you should stay with him. It's manipulation.

By the sounds of it, he also love bombed you and is now retracting, a commone tactic in manipulators to make their partner wonder what they're doing wrong and therefore try harder to win their affection.

You're gonna do what you're gonna do, but if a partner said that to me, I'd ask them to explain immediately. When they inevitably cant do it without being massively offensive towards you, I'd leave them and there.

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