Definitely not. It's your confidence that does the trick. When you feel more confident with abs, you'll automatically attract more women.

Love is not just about looks. It's about everything: your walk, your talk, your charisma, your mannerisms, your passions, your confidence, your quirks, the way you treat people, the way you make people feel, your views, your habits, your social circle...

When you work with what you've got looks wise and take care of yourself the best you can, you shouldn't worry about it. Most (not all, most) women don't want a model or body builder. Remember that we all have types (physically or mentally), we don't all go for the same kind of person. I know my type is nothing like my best friends type and none of us like a muscle man.

Start by creating a life for yourself that you love, with or without a partner. Look for love to enrich your life, not complete it. What would your life look like if I told you today you'd be alone forever. Would you start changing things? Most people would. Create that life, the perfect life that would make you happy without a partner. I guarantee that if you do that, they'll come knocking real fast.