No. Being organized and responsible doesn't make you crazy.

It doesn't make you OCD if it upsets you when every time you go to find the ..... Nail clippers.. that they aren't ✌️in the drawer✌️ and you have to hunt them down.

Your spouse shouldn't undermine you; I've always just gone by the way of "you can be happy, or you can be right, not both" and let them be.

I'm on stepchildren 4 5 and 6 at 17, 18, and 20 years old.

From day one they've been trying to get their mummy back because responsibility and independence isn't a good fit for them.

They live at my house, they waste all my resources and time and they consistently disregard what I ask and misuse our property.

Get used to it, divorce, or ... Well.. you know, and once you have kids you can't even do that anymore.

Welcome to life.