I need some advice on my position and was hoping some of you guys could help and tell me if the red pill is for me

Hey man. I had the same problem as you my friend. I thought I didnt look good enough or that I wasnt gonna get any girls cause im unattractive in the face. I even saw that thread you linked and it hurt a bit lol. I was mad that other guys have it easier and felt like if a woman was with me..she would crave another guy who is more attractive.

But to be honest,if you noticed a pattern, all these problems are inwards. You dont have a strong base yet. You're validation is what is causing all these insecurities. And it's easy for someone to say get over it..or learn to love how you look but thats bullshit.

What I reccomend that helped me is a couple of things. Reading more and more RP, right now you are definitely putting women on a pedestal. You need to get into meditation immediately. Read up on it and do it! It really has made me calmer. And lastly, what helped me is looking at things from a big picture. I was always worried about not enjoying being young by sleeping around a lot and having fun but thats bullshit. I am making it much bigger than it has to be and you are too.

Really. And you will learn this either now or when you do it yourself. You will sleep around more and realize its not that great and girls..just arent that great either. Thats why RP really pushes for doing things for yourself and getting hobbies. What I do in the morning is read the world news.. and I read up on some astronomy facts. It really reminds me how small we are and just how tiny our problems are. Anyways man. Hopefully you will see that this is all in your head. I couls of easily told you "dont worry man! There are dudes way uglier who score every night, just be confident!" But thats looking outwards again. You gotta find this yourself and I promise it will just transition over to all aspects of your life

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