Need some advice please

No I have found it disrespectful with the amount of insults I have received for asking a question on how I'm currently feeling and feel a bit lost and don't want to fuck things up in my relationship, I love my wife yes, would I cheat? No. Do I want more as most of you do, yes. Will I act on it without my wife being knowledgeable, no. As for wanting something for myself, that's for me, many have said I'm having double standards because I wouldn't want my wife to want the same or have a male partner, I don't need to justify why I want these preferences. If anything was to happen, which I doubt, I'd obviously have to discuss all this with my wife and make sure she's comfortable as I'd want to explore my body more than she can ultimately provide and that doesn't mean its her fault in any way. I'm aware what poly is but I'm also aware there's other names for these things and I've come across a bit childish in some of the replies as some of the replies are very closed minded considering the type of pages I've posted on.

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