Unfortunately my attitude is the opposite.

I think 20's is then free trial game of life ends, and after that we have full responsibility of our own lives, including our failures.

And since school days are gone, we have less opportunity to enter new social networks we need so much when we struggle in life.

I adopted some strategy to counter some of that, I pursue programming career and I live below my means, successfully spending only around 50% of money I earn every month.

But I still have no idea how to carry social life. I haven't fell in love for 5 years and aspie statistics on finding life partners are not good. I have no idea what to do.