Never met a straight guy who wanted to be my friend without some intention

Happened to me too several times, it's fucking frustrated when you feel you have a good friend and it's true... The last time was my flatmate, when we moved together we spent a lot of time hanging out, then I found he has crush on me (people were telling me we might end up dating, I laughed them off, then this happened..) .. I pulled back and lived my life a bit more separately so he's not addicted to me and also hang out with his friends a do his hobbies.... but at the end it wasn't same and he grew bitter to me, we had a couple of ups and downs and finally I finished it by moving out... I felt so relieved after that, I didn't realise how much negative energy I was absorbing from him... And of course, he acted as he doesn't give a crap and literally didn't even say goodbye. It makes me a bit upset but whatever, his lost...

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