New and Confused HL/LL

Hey, i'm not sure.. its definatley possible. Those 3/4 months were right after the period of him not masturbating or watching porn and I think it kinda sent his sex drive into overdrive. We were also apart living long distance for a few months around that time so i think that contributed also. I made him go to the doctors to get blood tests done after about a year of us getting together as i was wondering if he had low testosterone, it did come back as low but nothing has progressed since then and the doctors did not give any medication etc for this.

He seems to be responsive at times when I did/do initiate but there is no chemistry there at all and i know he is just doing it 'to get it over with' even though he is the one who orgasms and not me. I am/was a very sexual person but its the opposite now. I dont feel as insecure or upset as I used to, as the rejection certainly made me look at myself and question alot of things internally but i'm kinda past that now and I've almost trained myself to not get aroused?

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