New to poly... Advice NEEDED & WELCOMED

Reading this sub has confirmed to me this is the worst lifestyle. People seem to jealous wrecks, unable to form real intimacy, have poor attachment and boundaries. Maybe realize that you will never get everything you need and life, and more importantly, no multitude sum of people will create that for you. This seems like a giant excuse to keep one thing constant (a safety home base) while you go screwing around because you’re bored. The amount of disrespect people show each other these days is already high, and you want to multiply the problem by adding more of the common element: people. You think just because someone identifies as this that they do not come with basic human issues arising from needs? No. This seems just like a giant fantasy world with no one taking true responsibility

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