New York men, do you date outside of your race?

  1. It was odd to me because NY is very diverse - If a guy finds a woman attractive, he's probably not going to say to himself that he doesn't want to pursue her just because she doesn't fall under the same race. I figured the answer to the question is pretty self-explanatory.

  2. I never said it happened to me or that I was firing off nudes to random men nor is it mandatory. I was just giving an example that a lot of girls have talked about to me and it made me distrust that group of men, especially since I've never heard a single one being "good" too long. That could be just in the social group though. I've been exposed to more non-brown men and it's more rare that they'll do something like the example I used (again, anecdotal experience).

  3. Plus, I've never had a good experience with a brown guy ever, so yeah I don't expect to have one now (doesn't mean they're terrible, just means I haven't been compatible with one). I've also been exposed to more non-brown guys and they're a bit more open-minded and I do hold them to the same standard but I've had more successes with them.

I don't understand why a simple opinion, from my own experiences and perspective is attacked. It's pretty simple. I was giving an answer to a question and I didn't know I had to write an essay explaining each point.

Brown men are great but there are qualities in the ones that I've encountered that don't fit well with me and there are incidents from close friends and family that have made me a wee-bit more cautious about them.

I'm sorry you're so sensitive to the comments above. It's seriously wasn't that serious.

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