Update: the date didnt go as planned in fact it went awful. Something about having another women in our home really got under my wifes skin. So we ended it early. About 2 hours later she asked if she could talk to my sub. I said as long as you are respectful and she agreed. I called her and explained my wife wants to talk to her and basically my wife started apologizing immediately. She said she felt threatened and was worried I would leave her for my sub. It was honestly beautiful. They both talked for about and hour and a half and worked out rules and everything. She asked me to come to bed. We made love for the first time in a long time. I havent felt this close to my wife in a long time. My puppy is allowed to come over now (huge step) and even eat dinner with us just not at the table lol. We will see how things go but for now my wife is soundly asleep next to me. I'm truly thankful for tonight.