you could have simply admitted it as such, rather than defended your point as serious, which contradicts your assertion that it's a joke.

I didn't defend my point, Just pointed out what I believed were inveteracies in your statements. I didn't in fact make a point, you assigned one to me.

By all means, link me to said community of feminists laying into women for their toxic behavior towards men

I'll admit, i misread your original statement here,

note that these people never criticize feminists for pointing out problems in society

I didn't see the world in bold, which I'm sure makes my original response seem more reasonable.

I'm saying that feminists have a bias against men (misandry) that has long gone unaddressed,by most within their cohort.

I don't disagree with the statement, 'most' being the operative word.