Why do nice guys finish last?

I think you're being dishonest then. Perhaps not Tom Brady, but Brad Pitt? Channing Tatum? If you were alone in a bar, and two men were hitting on you. An effeminate internet nerd and Tom Brady, I believe you're lying if you say you're more inclined to pay mind to the internet nerd. There may be a few women who prefer more feminine types, but they're few and far between.

feel free to go more in depth on that one

Men who could not fight never lived long enough to pass on their genes. Women who were attracted to the men who could not fight didn't either.

By the way, why did you take "nice" and decide OP meant "girly"?

Because I'm a guy. I hear this question all the time, and it's usually from people whose last issue is their "niceness". The guys asking this question are usually ugly and effeminate, and have this cynical idea in their mind that anyone who isn't like them is not "a nice guy like them".

Essentially, the people asking this are people who aren't with women, and not by choice. Guys who can't get a woman. They see themselves as being "nice" and wonder why women don't like "nice guys". The truth is it has nothing to do with how nice they are, it's usually because they're ugly and women aren't sexually attracted to them. It's not the politically correct thing to say, but it's more than often the truth.

There is pretty interesting example I know of right now. There is a girl streamer I kinda know that's on twitch. One of the most successful streamers in the world is totally in love with her, and she knows it. He's highly intelligent, super nice, successful, and an all around great guy. She just straight up has no interest in him. Why? Because she's not attracted to him. (Which, for the record, I think is dumb. I think she's gonna realize after dating a few more pretty losers that maybe she made a mistake)

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