No Fap trp??

I wanna speak for the guys who talk about not wanting to objectification of women, seeing as I am one of them. It's not about feminism. I would never, ever consider myself a feminist. I am all for equality, but that's not what guys talk about when they refer to objectification of women. It's about taking control of our sexuality.

Porn messes with your mind. We can all agree on that. It twists our mind to view sex as the absolute pleasure. Slowly, the world begins to be viewed through these sex goggles. It becomes all we think about. It consumes us. YBOP covers this and the reasons why quite thoroughly.

The thing is, as human beings, we are more than just sex, food, and safey. We have art, science, entertainment, and most of all, relationships (friends, family, romantic, etc..). Porn takes these things away from us. Our innate desire for general human fellowship becomes muddied. We begin to value women solely by their potential to gratify us sexually instead of by the merit of their companionship. In other words, women become a means to an end; they're sex objects. They cease to be human beings that we can learn from, make memories with, or grow with. Remember, though, that a lot of this is subconscious, and western culture reinforces this everyday (ie Ugly Betty; why does it have to be "Ugly"? couldn't it just be called Betty?).

So, there are guys on here that want to have real relationships with real women that are much more than sex. PMO has taken it from us. We don't want to be controlled by our urges for sexual satisfaction. Instead, we want to control our sexuality, and use sex to enhance our intimacy, not define it. Part of this is realizing that women are people too. Feminism has nothing to do with it.

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