You will break your alpha if you tell him No. That's just how breakable alphas are. So alpha they crumple at the adversity that is denial of everything they want. Poor darlings must crumple on a daily basis.

The bit that always gets me about these articles is the order to "stop ordering his life". Who, in the name of all that is holy, has the fucking time to give two shits?

I couldn't tell you what my husband wore today - it was probably blue, because that's his favourite colour, but I got nothing else. I mean, what's the advice here? Today he got a haircut, and you know, I was at work rather than monstering the hairdresser - but apparently I need lessons on how not to terrorise the person who cut his hair or tell him what he needed.

But overall, I suppose I'm thankful. My husband married me because of the person I am. He didn't want someone who would just be a good reproduction of what he thinks he wants - he actually wanted the woman he married, who could pick out her own clothes without needing help from anyone else.

Out of curiosity, I tried this strategy on my husband once - to test if he really did give a shit on what I wore. I asked him, he said "Anything's good". Apparently in the red pill household, the man is an expert in fashion, and actually doesn't trust his wife to make such a simple decision as "What to wear today". That's how silly he thinks she is - and certainly, how silly she is if she can no longer dress herself, despite being old enough to get married.

I'm glad he doesn't have time to pick out my wardrobe and my fingernail colour. Because that's apparently how you can tell an alpha - they do give a shit if your fingers are "Lady Lilac" (current nail colour - $1 nail polish FTW) or not. Alphas apparently need to come shopping and help make over their Real Doll™, whereas other men don't.