To me, your post comes across as entitled to my money just because we meet up. You’re not. You get your allowance or PPM, dinner, drinks and a hotel at the beginning. If it continues and develops, maybe I invite you out on my boat, maybe we do a weekend trip somewhere nearby. Maybe we go shopping for an item or two, maybe I invite you on a longer trip when I’m somewhere fun for business.

Your expectations of an exotic trip for your upcoming birthday is quite frankly ridiculous and somewhat reckless. I don’t know how soon it is, but to fly to another country with someone you’ve known for less than 2 months is a recipe for disaster.

You say you’re good looking, but how good looking? The number of women that want to be “friends” or sugar babies far outstrips the supply of sugar daddies. Can you hold an interesting conversation? Do you care about me? Your post suggests you care only about yourself and offer nothing in return to your SD other than your good looks. What’s in it for me? What value do I get out of this relationship of exotic vacations and high life that 1) I can’t get with someone else or 2) that I can’t get going alone?

I don’t know what you consider ”the high life” but I drive a Ferrari, have a boat, spent 3 weeks on safari last year in South Africa, went to bora bora for a month and London for 2 weeks. I didn’t take an SB on any of these trips, I took my wife. My SB at the time got to drive the Ferrari a few times, got to go out on the boat and I took her to Amangiri for a long weekend. Our relationship ended after about 4 months, if you want to replace my wife on these other trips or for me to book another trip and take you instead, I better damn well feel like I’m getting something more than your good looks out of this.