How do you know what everyone else has or hasn't thought about?? Even if you think you're ugly, there's an equally ugly, lonely woman out there thinking 'no man has ever fantasised about me'.. Go find her. Maybe you need to just lower your standards.. Go out and get drunk and approach the women who are in your league. Relationships are not exclusive to beautiful, skinny people.. Even celebrities.. Look at Barbara Streisand, carrot top.. There's a lot of unattractive, successful people out there. It's not as black and white as you think. Have you travelled? There's over 7 billion people on the planet.. There are beautiful women who'd marry you just because you have a house and a job. What women or the media value in America is not what's valued in other countries.. Being hard working and having life goals seems to be what eastern European women really value.. I know several guys who've married the most beautiful Polish women, not because they're attractive or smooth talking but because they're hard working and family oriented. Have you tried pof? There are all kinds of people, not just beautiful people.. There's skinny, fat, tall, short, beautiful, average, below average.. If you find a woman who loves you, do looks matter then? If you're happily married or in a long term relationship, why would your appearance matter? Being beautiful is only beneficial to attract a beautiful woman but women who are mainly interested in looks are not marriage material.. They're usually shallow and unintelligent and useless in the home. Beautiful girls tend to have everything done for them and half of them are looking for a servant, not a husband.. 'must be able to make me laugh, must be over six foot, must be this and that'.. Fuck those bitches, they want you to give them everything and they'll do nothing for you