No social validation apps is a red flag apparently

Yea. The girls don’t realise that the whole mindset they have, although it’s true.. it’s not a blanket description that covers all men with no social media. But relying on someones social media to get an accurate read on what type of person they are is what’s completely wrong with this idea… social medias are full of shit. People can be whoever they want, give the impression they are this type of person and live this type of way. It’s nothing to go off. Surely meeting and engaging with someone face to face is more of a trustworthy way to pick up someone’s vibes?? And if you can be fooled that way shouldn’t that be your own fault? I hate the way the world is. Who the hell wants to small talk on socials for weeks before hanging out just because your a poor judge of character when meeting people

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