There are dudes way uglier and with less money then me that have more bodies then me and hotter girls then me.
I think it's only true online and that's where these kind of guys are spending all their time searching. Whatever type of hobby you have go out n do it (or if it's a indoor hobby go to events there's apps that'll show u events around your area related to ur hobbies) and you'll meet women and clique off great.
I used to be one of these guys then after taking this one bad rejection I didn't want valadation from others and started a self improvement journey. Learned self love (which is a must for girls and yourself) how to socialize better, slowly but surely getting things going for myself, and started hiking around this popular spot in my area and have meet some great women there