Non graphic lightly NSFW: advice on trying new things in bed

Thanks for the reply! We have researched swinger lifestyle to be more knowledgeable about other types of relationships, and our mentality is to never “yuck someone’s yum”. However, it is not for us as neither of us have any desire whatsoever to be with another person sexually. We’re both open minded, and I’d hope if either of us decided we wanted to discuss it seriously we would at least bring it up and have the discussion - our marriage is built on trust and open communication, after all.

Now, I do admit I wish I could have a MM style interaction, but at the same time I can’t imagine one without being emotionally bonded as I am with my wife - which I see as cheating even if it’s mutually agreed to - that’s just me, and I’d hope to not be judged for it as I wouldn’t judge others for their preferences. That’s the reason I was originally wanting to try pegging, honestly.

Trigger warning (assault, childhood trauma): i also have huge issues with being intimate due to a sexual assault when I was a child. It really screwed me up and the man who did it to me was never punished because I never would go to authorities or anyone over it. My wife is the only person I’ve ever been able to imagine sex with (and have sex with). If, god forbid, anything happened to her I would probably look upfront for a strictly platonic relationship that was open if either of us just wanted some “just sex” because I just can’t see myself connecting in bed again right now

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