Everything you see in porn is staged, which is not to say scripted. The cocks are bigger and cleaner, the pussies are lubed and shaved and the assholes are bleached and flushed to a sanitary grade.

Nothing that happens in porn is spontaneous, gassy or brown. That's my point, distinctive to real life which is smelly, sticky and sometimes, yes, a little bloody. Sex is basal, erogenous and sometimes stinky. It is the Rut, and its fucking HOT.

Real sex is cautious, unsure, embarrassed, baring, unrefined and risky to self and soul. The cravings are dark and urgent, the partners are all of willing, unwilling, capricious and insane, and the diseases are real and variously curable.

There's making love, and there's fucking. One is animalistic, grubty and sweaty, and the other is an unachievable, puritanical act of procreation. Yes, it's a mindfuck.

Enter, knaive, at your own risk. Or, throw yourself into it and learn to love it as the hedonist you know yourself to be.