That is not the reality. The "reality" is that OP is a young kid that thinks he knows everything and uses his extroverted, shameless personality to feel superior to his father. We don't have any idea what this man's "skills" are. All we know is that he isn't one to ask strangers for help. And that pisses off this teenage boy that grew up on Twitter and TikTok and doesn't understand why someone might not want attention the same way OP does.

I have no idea how to respond to your last line. The very nature of responsibility means someone is in control. There are no "irresponsibilities that no one is in control of." If no one is in control, then no one is responsible. If someone is irresponsible, then they are in control. So I don't know what you mean or what consequences you refer to. There are no consequences here. It's just a teenage boy that is king of his own little world, with all the empathy of a duck.