Is it normal to think vaginas are disgusting and gross?

It's possible you're asexual and just now figuring it out.

It's not exactly the nicest thing to express but many gay men do tend to find the sight of a vagina a bit repulsive. Though I am now realizing that's a little odd since most straight men would probably not call the sight of a dick repulsive, but I guess that comes with the territory of...y'know, having one. Exposure therapy.

So IMO it sounds like you're straight but asexual and sexual body parts just plain don't...appeal to you.

If you've always had a slow sex life because she's asexual, and that doesn't bother you, and you find the sight of a vagina repulsive...that sounds like asexuality to me!

Which, counterintuitively, is also sort of a spectrum. You can enjoy sex and still be "pretty dang asexual". never really seeking it out or actively desiring it, masturbating and still getting off, etc, but just not really into the idea of sex.

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