This is not accepted in other subs, but maybe here?

Relationships are emotional... Seriously quit blaming strawberry for opening up about her experiences with men who view relationships the way you do. This isn't a dating sub. We are here to offer support, and advice... which is exactly what was freely given to you. Stop making this about your trauma.

It is absolutely not okay to offer advice to a person who is the subject of your unresolved trauma

This did not happen.

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