She may have been lazy, but she saw the error in her ways and decided to do something about it. Something that required discipline and self control. That is what people do. They evolve. I already said this in my first reply to you.

Judging by your reply, it.seems like your reading comprehension skills are lacking. Either that, or you've let your own bias and frustrations steer the wheel where this subject is concerned.

And by whose standards is her "league" asshole ish and arrogant? You do realize your opinions aren't dictionary definitions, yes? You're entitled to your own opinions, but you're not entitled to your own facts.

Her wanting her boyfriend to lose weigbht and follow her on her mental and physical evolution does not make her an asshole., and you calling a total stranger online that until the cows come jome, will not miraculously help you, or whatever person in your life with attitudes such as her boyfriend's, lose weight.

Your echo chamber is not law. It's just that: an echo chamber.