Huh? Maybe I misunderstood you but I think you might have accidentally drank some trans koolaid? :-)

Sexuality is based on sex. It's in the word! People are attracted to the same or opposite sex or both.

Gender is a social construct. I think it's better to not even use the word honestly.

Men and women can dress however they want. It's just style and expression choices. We don't need a made-up word for those things.

Attraction also has to do with personality and expression. But those things aren't tied to sex.

So if someone is attracted to women who like to dress no nonsense, have short hair etc. They are still of course lesbian, but they like a certain expression or even philosophy. I find it attractive when women don't waste time and money on feminine bullshit stuff.

pinging /u/lavenders9 since you had responded also