To answer your question, I believe it stems from seeing these blue-pilled guys that we see as a reflection of our past self.

Some of these guys come from disparaged households and were raised by their mothers with no masculine figure to guide them.

Instead of seeing our fellow men fall into depravity and wallowing in their misery (this can be our own friends, brothers, relatives), we choose to look at the bigger picture of bettering a Man in hopes for a better society; not just in masculinity for a Man, but financially, emotionally, physically.

I agree that the best learning method is to crash and burn and that the majority of the posts could be answered by the sidebar, yet these guys are afraid to even look at themselves in the mirror. Much less, any girl. These guys will continue to live in mediocrity and choose to never make risks in life.

An analogy I can think of-- Imagine these blue pilled guys as baby birds. They are force fed by their mothers and the feminine imperative