Not mine but shared with permission. Note how the apology only comes when he realizes he's been blasted

Really?

My girlfriend literally cheated on me and the most savage thing I did was call her a bitch for what she did. I did alot of caring things for this girl including forgive her for what she did and she's greatfull. Two years later we're still together and happy.

And somehow in your narrative I'm some shitty abuser? You didn't even know the context. Would you say the same thing now? Maybe you would. But for me and her it was justified. My "widdle fee fees" weren't hurt. We were dealing with a serious problem and her actions reflected true dishonor. I'm over it and that's why I didn't add it as an example in my post. I'm merely telling you now because this is anonymous and to illustrate my point so maybe you understand there are situations where people that love each other might use strong language in non petty ways.

You might have a perfect relationship but ours and plenty others had a bump in the rode that involved the word bitch.

That doesn't make me all these weird things your are saying. And it doesn't make my love and our journey any less genuine.

Thanks for coming to my ted talk.

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