I disagree. Most women likely don't want to settle for pure beta types unless that is their own personality. This is why we see article after article about more social, high achieving/professional women complaining about the lack of commitment in men. The alpha guys that are still attractive are still not going to commit, or are dating grad students. Former beta guys who found their way and become much less beta, are too busy having so much fun in the bigger cities. I've seen these guys labeled serial monogamist. Plus I still believe many guys who were like me have issues with having missed out in life. Even today, in my middle age, if I were single I don't think I could commit to young women who had lots of casual, kinky, fun filled experiences. I realize my late bloomer past really screwed me up mentally, but there is no way I'd settle for someone who is "done having fun."