Hot take, not "everything" is a micro aggression. People who use that as a shield promote toxic work culture. There are plenty of ways to phrase something.
Example - Women in video games
Wow, good healing sucks that the dps were so low or we would of won - Normal - Able to congratulate without bring age/gender/race into it
You really kicked some ass! - Normal - Able to congratulate without bring age/gender/race into it
Youre pretty good , for a girl - Micro aggression - The implication is the majority of girls are bad
I cant believe you're actually good at games - Micro Aggression - The implication is the majority of girls are bad
Its important to clarify what a micro aggression is, it appears to be a harmless comment however with historical context very harmful. Ill go further because if you're just turning 18 you may not know , girls use to be hard excluded from video games and the culture. Even today if you que up for csgo with your wife/gf she will be hit with comments of sexual nature or even dick picks. imo that is not really funny.
Go back to the kitchen - Sexist