I have 4 kids and only planned for my first. All happy events, just had to juggle life and coped with the hard times as they came ..and there's been lots!! It's up to the individual whose carrying that baby and sadly yes that means fathers say is limited. I was lucky to have such great parents to help me out too. Not everyone is as lucky as me and a lot of the time young ladies who find themselves pregnant thru abuse or violent relationships don't deserve some govenment telling them that the only solution to a moral and soul destroying act is not an option for them. It's a woman's choice...not a set of politicians going home to a comfy lifestyle with nannies and maids and a perfect wife or husband. I'm pro life but I'm also pro choice