Now that seeking took “arrangement” out of the title, people seem to think it’s a regular dating site?

I have been on SA for over 5 years. There have always been women open to or actively looking for vanilla relationships with wealthy successful men.

I know younger SDs get a bad reputation, but this is particularly true that segment of younger quality SDs. SBs would specifically say something like "I could see this being a real relationship, BF/GF type of thing, and I don't want to screw up the chance of that by starting with an arrangement".

This was years ago.

Here's what I think happened. And it has little to do with the rebranding. There have always been people open to and meeting on SA for vanilla. But social media and word of mouth has taught men SA can be used for women looking for a rich guy. And Social Media and word of mouth has taught young women SA can be used to fuck a guy for a lot of money. So you have a bunch of new SBs who don't really understand sugaring outside of tiktok and their bestie who told them about it. And you have a bunch of new SDs who are not SDs at all, just dudes who are told their odds of finding a vanilla girl on SA is higher. Which is true.

But the complaints are up, Because you have more vanilla guys and more SBs just looking for money .

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