I see. So it's not so much that conspiracies to keep secrets from parents is a bad thing in and of itself, as much as it is a situational matter?

An out LGBTQ Youth from a Traditionally Religious, Socially Conservative family who has very strong feelings on that? Unacceptable. The parents must be informed immediately.

A rebellious, Westernized Muslim girl from a Traditionally Religious, Socially Conservative family who have strong feelings on that? She and her secrets must be protected.

It's interesting how we as a society must always vanguard the rights of Traditionally Religious, Socially Conservative Parents who have strong feelings on the Liberalization and Secularization of Society above all else except when the parents are the wrong religion.