I know the feeling from both understanding each others disorders and accepting it. My girlfriend and I are the same way. I’m diagnosed with NPD with overlapping BPD. She’s BPD, bipolar, and a possibly skitzophrenic. We are both aware of this and understand each other’s condition. We both try harder when the other is having a bad day/ week or when insecurities set in. And honestly, the roller coaster ride is something we both kind of thrive on since we hate having boring lives. It works out well. Basically, a match made in heaven.

I agree with the post about finding a guy with NPD or BPD. You’ll get the same excitement and understanding without the emptiness and harm you may get from a sociopath.