(Nsfw) does anyone deliberately sleep with chasers?

I have with one guy and it actually went really well. We started chatting over text for a few weeks and then video chatting on skype once or twice a week for few months before we ever got together. I too was wary of hooking up with a chaser so I wanted to really get to know him before we met in person. When we did finally get together, it was great. He was really sweet and completely respectful of my body and where I do/don't like to be touched.

My advice would be not to rush into sex or being alone with him until you've gotten to know him a little bit and you have an idea of what he's like. And also be very explicit about what's okay and what's not, and about any boundaries you may have with your body.

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