I 24F matched with a 50M on Tinder, I made it clear on my profile I was looking for a FWB and so obviously sex is the main part of that. Our first coffee date went well so he said he wanted to wine and dine me. We're messaging and he says he's going to make and effort clothing wise. I never go out like this, so I went out and bought a little black dress. When I arrive to the date he's wearing the same casual/kinda scruffy clothes from our date 2 days previous. I feel over dressed and uncomfortable, but after and a couple drinks it's fine. I keep pace with him drink wise, not realising he was a really really heavy drinker so at 8pm I'm already really drunk. I realise I must look like a hooker, young, sexy dress, drunk with a scruffy 50M. After food we go to a bar where I throw up so we get a taxi back to his place. I pass out for a couple hours (dont worry friends knew where I was, I knew I was safe with him, he didnt touch me). Once I wake up I initiate sexy times because that was the whole point of the date. He doesnt get hard. He doesnt say anything. Despite my best efforts nothing is happening and he eventually falls asleep on me. I try again in the morning. Again, no hard on, and he's not saying anything again. I couldnt wait to get out of there. I dont mind guys not getting an erection, it's completely fine, I know the alcohol didnt help, but it was so embarassing him not saying anything or reciprocating anything I was trying to do, especially when the whole purpose of the relationship was sex.