also radical ways of ending lonelyness. let me explain:

i am not awfully desperate for attention from another person. i like attention, but its not like i would die if i dont get any. however, i also have very low standards, so i would pretty much date any girl who only remotely shares interests with me. ok now lets assume i am not unique (you never are tbh) and there are girls who think in the exact same way. also lets assume a majority of those girls have vaguely the same interests as i do, since my interests are not very uncommon. i live in a fairly big city (not a huge lot of people, but most of them are in my age group), so there should be at least some of those people running around, and at least some of them are not murderers.

so to get to the point: if i knew it was socially acceptable, i would walk up to such a girl and just straight up ask her if she wants to watch anime while cuddling and eating chili (i make some really sick chili yo), because that is what i would want someone to ask me. i get why there has to be a detour over getting to know each other and figuring out whether or not you are a murderer, but its just so tedious to go through the motions of dating before you can get to the cuddling and chili part.

i dont know, is this crazy? am i crazy for thinking like that? i can walk up to cuddle with random cats, why not girls? why is love so complicated