I'm together with you man. But my wife is not likely to forfeit control. So you get a taste, she has forced me to sleep on a couch for three years. She has padlocks on the laundry room doors because she wanted to stop me from washing our son's laundry after I was doing so for 4 years. She has put a security lock on our bedroom door because she found that I was going in when she wasn't home and had previously told me not to go in there. She has removed the shower heads from the house to keep me from bathing. She called the police because I refused to stay at my parent's house. She's thrown my clothes out in garbage bags. She doesn't even share the TV remote. Its going to be a battle and I'm trying to sleep easy with confidence that I'm not going to be relegated to a part time dad because she is who she is.