[NY] What evidence can I use in a child custody court hearing?

I've offered fare and equitable solutions. I'm the only one to offer such generous terms. Would I want to be with our son every day? Absolutely! But I respect him and his right to both parents. I dont want to explain to him one day why I made it so he couldn't see his mother more than 8 days a month. I also don't want him to think for moment that I voluntarily agreed to rip myself away from him and see him only 8 days a month. We are far too close and I've raised him his he was an infant. I will fight for our son's right to both parents until its over. Ive made several concessions since this started but I cannot concede time. Time is all we have with our babies.

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