Hey, I am a foster parent. That child is not abused.

All children have a right to both parents unless the rights are taken away. And I am sorry if you disagree with my opinions but I have seen what happens to children when they lose a parent. Doesn't matter which, both are just as important.

All I've asked is put the child first. So read a little more before you attack my opinions.

And it's okay if you disagree with them. My job isn't to try to make your life worse by producing an opinion that doesn't make you happy.

If the mom is that toxic and abusing her child and using her as a tool to hurt the original poster for whatever reason, I am sure it can be proven in a court of law and shown through a lawyer and judge that doesn't disagree with the original poster.

Yes I picked up on it and actually trust his lawyer and judges opinions but he's gotta live with his decisions the way we all do and that mother does for marrying and having a child with the original poster.

Hopefully this will be a lesson to the many women out there looking to solve their problems through marriage.

Thanks.